cazz said:Why would I want to keep my phone private?
to prove that you can have some privacy without arousing any suspicion.
there are 2 ways to deal with insecurity, spying on each other or keeping everything in the open.
spies will try to catch an opportunity to look at your texts because they dont trust you and want to see what you've been receiving and sending.
keeping everything in the open means you look at each others texts "because you have nothing to hide" which actually means you dont trust each other and you need to look just to make sure.
if you really trust each other you would have no desire to look at the other person's texts, which sounds like your relationship, thats a good sign.
i guess there is another option, some people want to look at your texts because they're just nosey. thats not a problem, but it can sometimes make you doubt the other person trusts you.