Not sure where my post dissappeared to... but here's what I wrote.
Anyway thanks for your replies.
It seems as though I've been a bit unlucky.
However, I had the remap when car had 200 miles on clock.
Drove to around 4000 miles and then coolant dumped.
Turbo blew straight after this.
Then a new one was fitted and I've done 50 miles and it's gone again. I didn't even get a chance to floor it in this time - just normal day to day driving in town conditions.
I don't thrash it cold. I always let it warm up before flooring it. I keep revs over 2500+ before flattening the throttle.
I've gone over 140mph (not sure exact speed as the needle was off the clock) in Germany (obviously). Not sure if that affects anything but it was fun.
I've not changed the oil yet. I never let it run idle after driving long distances although I do have to come into town and drive at 30mph for 5 miles or so before getting home.
140+ is fine surely?
Anyway - aren't engines designed to operate at maximum revs. My friends a 1st engineer on huge power yachts (jammy git) and told me this was the case when I was asking about engines once. Perhaps he was talking about ship engines not 1.9 multijets....