Driving home from Mrs. Cheest's doctor appointment today, which went well btw, she exclaimed that she will NOT host Christmas for her family this year. I did a silent fist pull back and a "Yessss!" I don't dislike her family, I just like them farther away.
We don't host Christmas for my family because they are scattered all over the US. Her sisters are less than 90 minutes away. Mrs.Cheest and her youngest sister would switch off, while her middle sister always had an excuse not to host. The youngest and her other half decided that if the middle sister wouldn't host one, they weren't anymore either. Mrs.Cheest always looks for the best in people, especially her family, and always has excused her one sister. I was one that bitched about her sister, too, but it fell on deaf ears. I think the Big C has caused her to take off the rose colored glasses and really see her middle sister for who she is.
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I also don't have to carve a turkey, now, either.