Fidgit
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My partner has been accused of Sexual Harrasment at work.
The other week he went in to the office and said hello to a girl who works in there. He works as a pest controller and only goes in once a week. He went up behind her and put a hand on her back. They have known eachother for years.
Apparently she turned round and growled at him saying 'don't ever touch me like that again'
She is married but had an affiar with another guy who works with them. Someone had been winding her up about it that morning so my conclusion is that she didn't want people to think she was having another affair. There was nobody else around though.
She went back to her desk and spent an hour talking it over with her colleague and then decided to report my partner.
She had already handed in her resignaion at the time and left the next day although he has heard that she has been offered her job back and can come back in january.
My partner has been treated like crap and he said when he was interviewed intially he 'felt like a rapist'.
This has been going on for weeks now with HR hardly telling him anything and only been told he needs to be interviewed again at the last minute. He has put in a grievance with his company wihich they say they cannot deal with until after xmas as the appropriate people aren't here.
He has to attend a disciplinary hearing on Tuesday and may find out wether they are going to sack him or not.
We cannot believe that they would as nobody else has ever accused him of this. All the other admin girls have been interviewed and have said he has never made them feel uncomfortable. One of his friends has done a witness statement to say she saw the whole thing and he did not touch her bum (which is what she is accusing him of). So they have no proof that he did it and it's almost her word against his.
He has worked there for 8 years.
So now while we sit here fretting about whether we are going to have a good christmas or not, she is chilling at home enjoying her break knowing she has a job to come back to and the big cheeses are swanning about sleeping through the night and doing things in their own sweet time.
Grrrrrr......
The other week he went in to the office and said hello to a girl who works in there. He works as a pest controller and only goes in once a week. He went up behind her and put a hand on her back. They have known eachother for years.
Apparently she turned round and growled at him saying 'don't ever touch me like that again'
She is married but had an affiar with another guy who works with them. Someone had been winding her up about it that morning so my conclusion is that she didn't want people to think she was having another affair. There was nobody else around though.
She went back to her desk and spent an hour talking it over with her colleague and then decided to report my partner.
She had already handed in her resignaion at the time and left the next day although he has heard that she has been offered her job back and can come back in january.
My partner has been treated like crap and he said when he was interviewed intially he 'felt like a rapist'.
This has been going on for weeks now with HR hardly telling him anything and only been told he needs to be interviewed again at the last minute. He has put in a grievance with his company wihich they say they cannot deal with until after xmas as the appropriate people aren't here.
He has to attend a disciplinary hearing on Tuesday and may find out wether they are going to sack him or not.
We cannot believe that they would as nobody else has ever accused him of this. All the other admin girls have been interviewed and have said he has never made them feel uncomfortable. One of his friends has done a witness statement to say she saw the whole thing and he did not touch her bum (which is what she is accusing him of). So they have no proof that he did it and it's almost her word against his.
He has worked there for 8 years.
So now while we sit here fretting about whether we are going to have a good christmas or not, she is chilling at home enjoying her break knowing she has a job to come back to and the big cheeses are swanning about sleeping through the night and doing things in their own sweet time.
Grrrrrr......