They like to drive down narrow country lanes (often at speeds which aren't particularly safe either).
It's all of the gears, but mostly 2nd and 3rd. They checked the cables, so it shouldn't be that.
Well I guess you could go to another dealer. But seriously I really wouldn't worry about how they drive your car too much. Best not to think about it.
If it's all of the gears it sounds more like either a clutch or cable issue. I really don't know what to suggest. Surely your only option is to take it back to the dealer and see what they think.