Is there something wrong with me?

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Is there something wrong with me?

The Negotiator said:
:eek:!!! I have been like this for at least a year, should I turn dido, coldplay and jewel off and secure the knives?!

Bad music can make you feel awful, so yes, throw those CD's away and go and by some quality music like the Kaiser Chiefs, Foo Fighters & Green Day ;)

Also advise that you DON'T listen to the Smiths, Joy Division or early Manic Street Preachers (especially 'The Holy Bible') under any circumstances! Unless you like really depressing lyrics that make razor blades and warm baths seem an attractive option :p
 
I felt like this just after christmas. However since going the gym and five-a-side on weekdays, I feel great! exercise causes your body to release feel good endorphins. So I'd recommend exercise.
 
I think I know what your feeling...only as its been hanging over me on and off since May (oddly triggered by a woman :eek:)...but it seems to disappear and fade off with success, trying new stuff always helps!!

Only saying that as Ive turned to coding a computer problem as Im not in a position to do any uni work...can't go dancing or diving (eye's still FUBAR'd), skint too so cant go to the pub, oh well!

Its odd what an evening anmd a world of info (the web...)can do to a person.

I havent felt like this in a while, and although my eye is properly annoying me, it seems all good for a change, even though i have 2 car that need MOTing and /or taxing and/or SORNing and in need of new parts with a very small budget. Ah well...It'll pass and all will be well :)

Im sure its seasonal mate!
 
charmed103 said:
Have u tried eating more healthy food n a bit of exercise, that helps me I love the feeling i get after i have been in2 the gym, it picks me up no end(y)

that-a-girl (y)

working out realeses the same "feel good" endorphines as sex and chocolate, giving u a natural high feeling :worship:


pinin__prestatyn said:
I felt like this just after christmas. However since going the gym and five-a-side on weekdays, I feel great! exercise causes your body to release feel good endorphins. So I'd recommend exercise.

bugger.... beaten to it :D
 
Come on Everyone, lets stop this sombre moping about lark. Its Friday, it's gonna be a bright sunny weekend. Get out there and do summat !!!! Me ? I'm gonna set off early and bezz on over to Pendle Hill and like the Grand Ole Duke of York i'm off up to the top and back down again. Fresh air, lovely scenery and blow out a few cobwebs. Then i think i might find a cosy country pub with blazing fire for some hearty grub before setting off home. Sounds good to me. Can't wait. What you lot up to ?
 
Big Black Stilo said:
Im very bored all the time, tired, fed up with everything and nothing seems to really cheer me up lately.

Am I ok?

When you tell someone this, the reply is usually to cheer up etc. The good intentions are there, but unfortunately it is much easier said than done. (I'm sorry if the following has been mentioned already, but its late..and i couldnt read all the replies!)
What you would really need to do to combat the feeling(s), is keep busy. Change things: do them in a different order, on a different day, with a different person etc.
You probably feel you have nothing to look forward to, and reason the for this is that you most likely have a routine, and that's something which is quite hard to see past, so things feel that they are and will continue to be dull. Change is the best remedy. Make things interesting, start hooking up with friends a bit more again, have crowds that make you laugh and think in different ways, but whatever you do, don't let yourself just sit there alone, and think about "stuff" - talking with others about it would help, but avoid thinking excessively in solitude. Think instead of what you want to do, or will be doing, not the crappy way things are going or have been going.
It can be a quick process, but usually, its quite slow to get out of it.
Not knowing does makes it worse of all...but since pinpointing the cause is extremely difficult...start thinking what you would want to do, which doesn't make you feel crap, and work at it from there.
I hope you find a way or more. Unless you become the happiest person in the world, this won't be the first time you feel this way...but kicking it in the teeth when it shows its face eases things a lot :)
 
mase said:
that-a-girl (y)

working out realeses the same "feel good" endorphines as sex and chocolate, giving u a natural high feeling :worship:




bugger.... beaten to it :D

although admittidly i wud prefer sex over exercise lol(y)
 
People are starting to notice now- which is worrying.

Especially when my mrs kept asking me what would make me happy all sunday whilst out shopping. Which was annoying after a bit.

Been out for the drives, loud music and that and its not doing much.

Probably will pass though.
 
Big Black Stilo said:
People are starting to notice now- which is worrying.

Hows it going big black stilo,stupid question i know ,but when youre feeling how you feel it dont make much difference what people say.Just thought id tell you that youre out of time and you now have to contact your G.P. I used to suffer from sad but it eventually turned into deep depression and ive suffered with it for 3 1/2yrs now.Dont let yourself get into that predicament and if people are noticing your mood then its definately time to seek proffesional help.This doesnt mean youre a nutter or less of a man,in fact to open up to the fact youve got a problem takes guts imo.Ive read all the threads and no ones ridiculing you etc. theres some good advice(especially 2 of em) and some not so good advice(tho all had gud intentions) try not to drink alchohol as its a quick fix but in the morn youll feel worse for it. Also IF you do smoke ,keep off the wacky backy as this also makes matters worse. I know its hard but try and talk to your partner about how you feel(a problem shared etc)if only to re assure her its nothing shes done. At the moment youre in a deep dark hole and youre not going to get out without help you will fall deeper the longer you try to get out by yourself.Its now time you took alot of peoples advice and get some professional help and advice and i mean NOW, dont leave it any longer please. I wont leave you with a "keep y chin up"as it can be very annoying hearing this so often all i will say is "hang on in there", you can and will get out of you depression with the help of professionals and loved ones.GOOD LUCK

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