Currently in the process of rejecting my car. Asking for my money back seemed to have got Fiat's attention though.
After having my car for 4 weeks I've now been told that there is a new updated ECU which is supposed to fix several issues:
1. Apparently Start/Stop doesn't work correctly in < 4 degrees (don't ask me why), which can result in warning lights.
2. Holding the car on the clutch for mere seconds on the 1.4 (i.e 2 - 3 seconds, no more) can cause the warning light's (which is the problem I am getting).
It's being fitted to my car early next week so I'll report back if it does fix my issues. To anyone having issues with Start/Stop or related, I'd get your dealer to find out about this updated ECU - it might just sort you out