My brother and his wife of forty five years announced to their kids yesterday that they are divorcing. Merry Christmas kids!
To a point, it's amicable. He retired at 58 after selling out his share of the company he founded with some college mates that made him very wealthy. The money also changed him. Stoked his ego. He bought a big chunk of land in N. Wisconsin, primarily as a vacation/hunting place. Built himself a cabin and restored the old farm house for guests. It was supposed to be a weekend getaway place for both of them, but he decided he was going to live there full time. He won't live in town and she won't live in the boonies.
We started to guess things were going south when Kathy had open heart surgery over the summer and he didn't leave the cabin to be with her. One of their daughters, who works in the medical profession, ended up being her care giver. We'd get a play by play on her recovery via group text from him but that was it. IMO, that was kind of crass but then we learned he had side chick up in the north woods. A woman that had a crush on him in high school and still did. That stoked his ego, again.
We don't know if Kathy knows about the side chick. It seems that some of my old high school classmates knew because I was asked about it at our 50th class reunion. I was a bit taken aback by the question but my response was that they'd have to ask his wife. OTOH, we don't know if Kathy has a boy toy, either.
There hasn't been a divorce in the family in over a century. We always knew my brothers' pride and ego would eventually cost him, though. Mrs.Cheest and I decided long ago to sit out the family drama and just watch from the sidelines with a bowl of popcorn.
To a point, it's amicable. He retired at 58 after selling out his share of the company he founded with some college mates that made him very wealthy. The money also changed him. Stoked his ego. He bought a big chunk of land in N. Wisconsin, primarily as a vacation/hunting place. Built himself a cabin and restored the old farm house for guests. It was supposed to be a weekend getaway place for both of them, but he decided he was going to live there full time. He won't live in town and she won't live in the boonies.
We started to guess things were going south when Kathy had open heart surgery over the summer and he didn't leave the cabin to be with her. One of their daughters, who works in the medical profession, ended up being her care giver. We'd get a play by play on her recovery via group text from him but that was it. IMO, that was kind of crass but then we learned he had side chick up in the north woods. A woman that had a crush on him in high school and still did. That stoked his ego, again.
We don't know if Kathy knows about the side chick. It seems that some of my old high school classmates knew because I was asked about it at our 50th class reunion. I was a bit taken aback by the question but my response was that they'd have to ask his wife. OTOH, we don't know if Kathy has a boy toy, either.
There hasn't been a divorce in the family in over a century. We always knew my brothers' pride and ego would eventually cost him, though. Mrs.Cheest and I decided long ago to sit out the family drama and just watch from the sidelines with a bowl of popcorn.