Certainly not, I think most of us have been there and we're all cheering you onThankyou so much for all the advice and experience, seems I'm not alone in experiencing sump plug hell!
I had to give up once with a drain plug, almost reduced to tears, and watched in dismay as my local indy whipped it out like it was nothing after I'd explained what a pig it was :/
The right technique with the right tool is everything. Which is why I don't like using a ratchet for jobs like this. They always have a bit of play or give in them - you can really feel the difference with a decent driver. And as koalar says, increasing the length of the driver reduces the effort.
You're just on the steepest part of the learning curve at the moment, but you'll get there