OK!!! I now have flashing indication when locking or unlocking the car. Fixed it today!!!!!!
Now, from what i could see, the guy connected the car with the examiner, went into SECURITY menu then procedeed into BODY COMPUTER MAGNETTI menu and then proceeded though 3 - 4 menus, and the system asked him if he wanted to activate the "BLINKER" function. He then asked me for the electronic code ( 5 digit number on a small blue creditcard size card which also has the mechanical code written on, which is given with the car), he put in the system and !!! TARAAAAAMMM!!!! flashing indicators! I am pleased with this because i can now be sure that I have locked the car without looking through the window to see the red light blinking!!!