Colbolt steel drill bits, and the technique is to just drill though everything in seconds.
I was put on to these by a guy who repaired cherry pickers. They will go though alloy bolts like they are butter, where hss bits would work harden the bolt then go blunt in seconds.
The colbolt bits are expensive but worth every penny in the time and frustration you’ll save.
Tool station is a good place to get them
Agree with Andy K here.
As a retired machinist/engineer, would only use cobalt or carbide (though carbide is very expensive, and mostly used for machining on lathes, and mills etc, and only really for batch/mass production).
I would rather pay for the better Cobalt drills, and save time and frustration caused by using cheap HSS or even titanium coated, (as the coating wears of quite quickly, and if re-sharpened, its then only HSS underneath. Cobalt are solid, so sharpening still leaves the carbide cutting edge)
Allow the drill to cut itself into the work, don't push or force it, slowish speeds, minimal pressure, and keep it lubricated (I use cutting fluid, (as I do a bit of machining, having a lathe and a mill) but any coolant is better than none at all)
Personally use Bosch cobalt drills, but any reputable make is OK, though some of the cheaper ones aren't as good as 'branded' ones.
Buy decent kit once, or cheaper kit many times, the decent stuff is probably more expensive to start with, but will last, and be more effective, and cause you far, far less aggro..