Just a quick update.
After it getting worse and smoking quite a lot especially for the first 10 mins at least whilst driving, and once you get it up to speed it started making a sort of humming noise if i did over 80, it finally got traded in.
I looked at a few vans that sounded ok, but the doors wouldnt open or shut properly and one had been bodged with silicone(probably hoping no one would notice)
I finally found a van and told the bloke about mine and he was ok with that. so got there and there were a few bits broken, but he let me take the following off my van to compensate/fix it, (2 door handles, wheel jack and brace kit, spare wheel and stereo)
I now have a 2.8JTD 2003 van, body work is good (all paint is there too) clean interior, and engine sounds ok (its just been on a 600 mile round trip today), didnt think much to the fuel comsumption though, works out at 23mpg on a good motorway run doing a steady 80ish at 3000 revs.
Clutch is a bit spongy and 4th and 5th grind a little if i change too quick, but i can live with that, and the ignition barrel keeps jumping back sometimes although ok once started. but i suppose they are just little jobs to sort out.
How much did you pay in the end? 23mpg I'm guessing thats the high roof one? It will do 32mpg at 60-65mph but over that kills due to the aerodynamics. If the gears are grinding I'd drain the oil and overfill as described in other threads all those bits of metal flying around won't do your bearings any good.