Some girlfriend help!

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Some girlfriend help!

The more you do something the easier it becomes,
Why would you not talk to them?
the worst they can do is fob you off or ignore you, And so what?
Women love direct men,
I used to be like that but one day forced myself to talk to a random women on the train which led to 2 fantastic years with her :D
After i talked to that girl it became kind of a rush to approach them (y)
As for the confidence thing, try a couple things for the next few days, hold your head high and look people in the eye when you talk and see what happens, people and females treat you soooo much differently, how can any one respect you if you cant even look them in the eye?

and some women don't mind a guy who's lacking in confidence. Someone who comes across as being overly confident can just look like they're just wanting sex. If that's what both parties want then it's not a problem of course, but if you're out there wanting a relationship then being shy doesn't necessarily hurt. In fact some women quite like the whole shy thing :)
 
The phrase "throwing a sausage down an alleyway" springs to mind :)

Call it what you like but if he gets exactly what he asks for surely its a WIN (IMO).

I once while drunk at a Donington rock festival asked a very pretty girl that exact question. To my surprise she said yes and I was left wondering what the hell I should do next.
Needless to say I brought her a few drinks and an Ozzy T-shirt after we spent a very pleasant 60 minutes behind the beer tent.
Her name was Jo and we spent the next 6 and a half years together.

Don't knock it until you've tried it. :devil:
 
Everyone wants something different I guess :) Personally I like being part of an exclusive club rather than being one of many :p One night stands just don't do it for me, I once had a 3 week stand which was quite good though :)
 
Just walking away from her because she gave as good as she got is stupid.

Are you really expecting a girl to plant herself on you right there and then, 3 seconds after you popped the question? You guys need to get out more if you do.

If you ask a girl a stupid question, why shouldn't she give you a stupid answer?

Its just an ice breaker, if she says yes you laugh and introduce yourself, you don't run off, that just makes you look very weird. What are you expecting her to do, stuff her ***** in your face and eat you for breakfast the instant she replies "Yes"?
That only happens in porn movies ...
 
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Just walking away from her because she gave as good as she got is stupid.

Are you really expecting a girl to plant herself on you right there and then, 3 seconds after you popped the question? You guys need to get out more if you do.

If you ask a girl a stupid question, why shouldn't she give you a stupid answer?

Its just an ice breaker, if she says yes you laugh and introduce yourself, you don't run off, that just makes you look very weird. What are you expecting her to do, stuff her ***** in your face and eat you for breakfast the instant she replies "Yes"?
That only happens in porn movies ...
That's how it works out here - walk into club, see girl you like, if she gives you some attention, ask her home ... no need to waste a night dancing / talking with her.

But that's my point - if she says yes, then she likely does to a lot of others - and this is not the type of girl I want to get to know.
 
That's how it works out here - walk into club, see girl you like, if she gives you some attention, ask her home ... no need to waste a night dancing / talking with her.

I've been out there, I know how it works so I kept my mouth shut.

But that's my point - if she says yes, then she likely does to a lot of others - and this is not the type of girl I want to get to know.

If she says yes she's likely to be taking the **** just like you did by asking in the first place.
 
I've been out there, I know how it works so I kept my mouth shut.



If she says yes she's likely to be taking the **** just like you did by asking in the first place.
In some cases perhaps, but no, the majority of times - that's all you need to do - why do you think teaching English is Asia is so popular? It's not because of the sense of satisfaction you get from helping the kids.... :eek:
 
In some cases perhaps, but no, the majority of times - that's all you need to do - why do you think teaching English is Asia is so popular? It's not because of the sense of satisfaction you get from helping the kids.... :eek:

Like I said, I've been out there, a beautiful country and an extraordinary culture. But Western guys attract the wrong "types" and there's a very good reason why they do ...

I said nothing and I walked away. If you were daft enough to ask that sort of question over there I don't blame you for walking away, I just wouldn't have asked, period.
 
IMO he should be out there enjoying the company of female's.
Ain't nothing wrong with one night stands just remember to bag up kids!
To this day i don't know the age, where they lived or even names of two of my 1night stands,
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Because at the end of the day, it's all good and well being a virgin or not having many partners, but it's like Tennis . . when you go up against someone who is either really good or "the one" you don't wanna be firing into the net or giving crap service for a good two hours . . ;)
 
I'll have to disagree with the "One night stands aren't bad" point. As a release of stress okay but not as a long term thing. You can get away with a lot more in a relationship than you could even consider in a one night event. I've only ever had a few because they always want more. ;)

One night becomes a few, then a week and before you know it you're in a sexual relationship with someone you know sod all about. Then as soon as you think "let's get to know each other" it's over because you find them repugnant.

Remember a one night stand today is nothing more than an episode of the Jeremy Kyle show next year.
 
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