My understanding is that the body computer is pre-programmed to expect to find a B&M unit. Even if disconnected I don't believe you can remove that "expectation" its like its in its DNA! This I was told by a reputable Independent. If you fit a new unit you have to have the "proxy alignment" which is giving the body computer the ID of that unit.
It may be that a dealership would be able to reprogramme the body computer not to expect a B&M unit but as I understand it this cannot be done.
I have removed the B&M unit and currently live with the flashing Odometer.
Here's the link to the remanufacturer in Italy
https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/233585455447?ssPageName=STRK:MEBIDX:IT&_trksid=p2060353.m1438.l2649
I have not used them before.
I will also try to find the previous thread
https://www.fiatforum.com/panda-iii/480771-wheres-blue-me-module-2.html see post
#17 for removal detail and my workaround fix.