Welcome to the FIAT forums!
Don't be scared to post in the forums - its all very friendly and everyone is helpful
Good luck with the Panda - but I'm sure you won't need luck - just a bucket and sponge and warm soapy water - its difficult to keep a car clean at this time of year!
As a new driver the best bit of advice my (racing driver) dad gave me was "treat every other driver on the road as an idiot - expect them to do something really unexpected - that way you will be ready for when they actually do it!"
He also said "Expect the unexpected - such as... The school bus coming towards you on the wrong side of the road on a blind bend ...On a Sunday!"
I heeded this advice, and 45 years on I'm still here! :slayer:
A warm welcome from me too!
Yes, don't ever be afraid to post. The forum is a friendly and "nice" place to be. I have, very occasionally, seen some "silly" posts but it's been obvious that the people involved seem to "know" each other and are probably trying to wind each other up a bit. We are all happy to help if we can.
In much the same vein as MAX's advice above, My brother in law was a WW2 pilot - Coastal Command, I think he mostly flew Liberators out over the Atlantic - before becoming a civil pilot (BEA). He was a cautious and quite slow driver. I once asked him why he drove like this considering he flew planes which go at hundreds of miles an hour. His reply was "Yes, but we don't have closing speeds anything like you do on a road because we are all distanced and fly in corridors in the sky. anyway Jock, I just drive as if every other driver is actually trying to have an accident with me". He also once made another interesting comment which obviously had a deep impact on me because I have never forgotten it. I was sitting in the jump seat with him flying out of Athens going down to Larnaca (many years ago, now a days you can't do this anymore) when suddenly he became very concentrated, often looking at something down on his left side (later found out it was a radar screen of some sort) and I asked him what was going on. After a moment he pointed out of the cockpit window to the right and said "watch closely". Within moments another plane went flashing past, incredibly fast, in the opposite direction, but quite a long way away. He said "That was much too close for comfort, He shouldn't even have been flying at this height and we certainly shouldn't have been able to see him". Later, as we were driving out to Nisi Beach (which in those days was wild and beautiful, not the "party" place it is today) we were talking about it and I said how shocked I'd been at how fast the plane was travelling. He pointed out that it was because it was a closing speed so we were traveling in excess of 500mph and so was he. The relative speed between us therefore was probably over 1,000 mph. Think about that in relation to driving he said. As you are driving along your senses relate, in great part, to the countryside passing by outside and when you brake you are relating to this and the vehicle in front - and, being an experienced driver, you'll know that sometimes it can be difficult to pull up in certain circumstances. However what about the vehicle coming towards you? If you are going 50mph and he's doing the same, if something goes wrong between you it's like dealing with an incident where you are going 100mph and there are not many drivers that can cope with that - it halves your reacting time compared to the other things, trees, pedestrians, parked cars, etc around you which you are relating too.
Next time you can safely do it watch the vehicle in front of you as it passes some easily seen roadside feature - Lamp post, road sign, etc - and say to yourself, at a normal rate of speaking, "Only a fool breaks the two second rule" (which should take you roughly two seconds to say). If you have passed your reference point - the lamp post or whatever - before you complete this mantra, then you are too close to the vehicle in front to get safely stopped in an extreme emergency. It's worth remembering that if you run into someone in front of you you will nearly always be held responsible! Try it when on the motorway at 70mph, you'll be amazed at what the gap should be, but I can assure you that, having once come over the brow of a hill on a dual carriageway at approx 70mph only to find a serious accident completely blocking both lanes, you will need that distance and more - and if it's wet?
I like to make rapid progress where possible so I don't drive like a moving traffic jam, but by following these thoughts, like MAX, I'm now 74 and still here!
Kindest regards and stay safe
Jock