BCU photo. For those who have the same issue and are following this story. Other posts and youtube video show a guy with the same issue on a Fiat 500. He also butchers the BCU which on his model is a single board (not dual layered) so he can easily access the rear of the relay solder connections and replace the relays. Again plenty of other posts talk about sourcing these from any supplier and simple solder them on. The point to note is that the BCU's look identical between most models- but they are not. On this guys BCU the relays he identifies as lights related are the two not visible in my photo. Those were of course the first 2 i went after assuming the same issue (relay simply stuck on) and therefore solution would be as set out in his video.