Anti sieze paste should always be used to protect the threads and all four bolts should be tightened evenly, too much force will strip the threads. Tight threads should be cleaned up before use. Why did you keep forcing it when the 1st one stripped?
You are looking at a new hub and having one butchered wheel maybe the others are not much better.
You can drive (carefully) on three wheel bolts, but 2 is pushing it.
Get it to a professional to drill out the stripped bolts. They will probably have to collect the car. They can decide if the other threads are safe.