Thanks for the replies, Nope no beeps at all which is weird, But if I leave the graphics card unplugged it beeps to say its not connected properly, But the beep code in the manual says it should beep once to say it has recognised a card.
At the start I did forget that ATX connection, Thought it would solve it but did nothing. And the Ram was in the appro[rite slots, Couldnt be one in slot 2 if there wasn't one in slot 1 for example.
Motherboards gone back today, Said there should be a 3 day turn around, And with the card not working with the board w/o a driver, Possible lol, But I borrowed an older 9800gt which worked with my friends new build.
So now we play the waiting game....