The Negotiator said:Steve, her Gran just died
Sorry to hear that Paul, but don't let her use that as an excuse to neglect you. If she does then find another woman.
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Sorry to hear that Paul, but don't let her use that as an excuse to neglect you. If she does then find another woman.
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That's not even funny Steve
****ING WASHING MACHINE TUMBLE DRIER WASHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EXAMS!!!!!
****ING WASHING MACHINE TUMBLE DRIER WASHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EXAMS!!!!!
Paul, you have to laugh, if you didn't you'd cry.
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i know
It's just she's not in a good way right now, takes it out on me, my washing is ****ed, my exams were ****ed and i feel like everything is ****ed right now.
/moaning.
It's just she's not in a good way right now, takes it out on me, my washing is ****ed, my exams were ****ed and i feel like everything is ****ed right now.
/moaning.
If you two are still together after this then it must be a good relationship!
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Tryfan, don't worry, it's walk over Paul month
no sorry thats next month...im not taking that as an answer...the washing can be sorted...exams are over put that to the back of your head (hard i know but do it) and tyour girlfriend, its a tough time for her but she cant take it out on you...harsh but true...sorry.
Just the month Paul? Not bad then
TashyG said:
Steady on Tashy! That's what relationships are all about being there as a buffer when people need to vent! You can't be insesitive about death, it affects everyone differently, especially if they were close to the deceased. When my wifes Gran died she had a rough time and was very snappy with me but I knew she was hurtin and I just loved her until the pain was bearable for her. One of the best remedys was going away for a short break..change of scenery helps sometimes...
paul, just let your gf lay into you, she is going through alot more than just bad washing and exams. i know it must be hard for you right now, but it will get better mate.
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I have and I am, I am not saying my problems are as much as hers but right now all of these things put together makes me proper ****
I'd hate to be in your position right now, but you'll get though it all.
have you got the drink carton thing through the post in the end?
have you got the drink carton thing through the post in the end?
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nope, least of my problems.
I just hope my clothes aren't all ruined, can you imagine replacing your whole wardrobe?! I also hope my exams didn't go as badly as I think I also hope my gf improves .
I just hope my clothes aren't all ruined, can you imagine replacing your whole wardrobe?! I also hope my exams didn't go as badly as I think
I also hope my gf improves .ouch, i definately wouldn't like to do that. make sure all the wet stuff (do they look that bad?) is hung up properly....won't smell as much then.
hope the exams do go well and of course she'll get better, just needs to go through the grieving process.
try not to dwell on the whole exam thing, it'll get you down even more...
hope the exams do go well
and of course she'll get better, just needs to go through the grieving process.try not to dwell on the whole exam thing, it'll get you down even more...
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All left in shower room with ilttle extractor fan on overnight, best i can do
