Not mental...just have pride, which is a good thing
And my kids don't love me anymore than yours do you

We are just mums, who are there to be taken for granted
I agree with a lot of what you are saying...but the bit in bold...what the hell is jobseekers then? If that is not a safety net for the able bodied.
And if you had ended up in a wheelchair...and in turn, your company eventually gave up on you...do not tell me you wouldn't have needed extra help from the state, cos I will not believe you if you say otherwise.
Some people in life are luckier than others, no-one wants to be housebound, no-one wants to have missing limbs. I for one don't care if every penny of tax that I pay for the rest of my life goes to someone with MS or has a child who will never walk, talk, get married or live a normal independent life.
That money will save more in the long run, by the parents caring for that child without paying for full time respite care, or helping the ms sufferer to keep independence.
I do however begrudge paying for MP's to have John Lewis charge cards, so they don't even pay for their own shopping out of their overblown salaries. While they twist the thumbscrews on people who are already surviving on an average of £70-90pw