I wanted to ask your opinions on this situation.
met a lass in town the other week, been talking and texting all the time, unfortunatly her parents were kiled in a car accident, so she can be vulnerable, she seems to be able to open up to me, rather than her immediate family, tells me everything, and i try to reassure her as best i can.
Anyway we arranged to meet up today and go out, get to know each other, when arrived at meeting point she wasnt there, so foned her up, she said she was on her way.
Waited a bit longer and still no sign, tried foning but fone wouldnt connect, so txtin her as well.
As my grandad lived close by, went there to ring her but that wudnt connect either.
an hour and 20 mins later i decided id been stood up so went off on my own. Foned about 45 mins later after that and got a connection spoke to her, she was dead upset sayin id not been in touch all day and had been to meeting point only to find i wasnt there
she said she hated me, i was real upset so left it for a bit, foned bak and she answered cryin, we managed to sort things out, i asked to see her but she said she had something to tell me, turns out she had taken some pills and vodka and was feeling sick and tired.
i was panickin but managed to keep her talking, tried to get her to go see her brothers, but she said they hit her and was scared of them, as i didnt know her adress myself to ring for an ambulance i tried to get it, but she was all drowsy, she couldnt even remember her name for gods sake!
after a bit there was silence, i was shouting down the fone but response was there none. i put the fone down feeling sick to the stomach, the only thing i could think of was to write a text message explaining the situation so her brothers could see it and knew what was happening.
just received a txt sayin she is off to hospital, i want to go but i feel i will get the **** beaten out of as her brothers threatened me following my ''no-show''
i feel helpless now, and i feel i could have done more
did i do the right thing? was there something i could have done better??
met a lass in town the other week, been talking and texting all the time, unfortunatly her parents were kiled in a car accident, so she can be vulnerable, she seems to be able to open up to me, rather than her immediate family, tells me everything, and i try to reassure her as best i can.
Anyway we arranged to meet up today and go out, get to know each other, when arrived at meeting point she wasnt there, so foned her up, she said she was on her way.
Waited a bit longer and still no sign, tried foning but fone wouldnt connect, so txtin her as well.
As my grandad lived close by, went there to ring her but that wudnt connect either.
an hour and 20 mins later i decided id been stood up so went off on my own. Foned about 45 mins later after that and got a connection spoke to her, she was dead upset sayin id not been in touch all day and had been to meeting point only to find i wasnt there
she said she hated me, i was real upset so left it for a bit, foned bak and she answered cryin, we managed to sort things out, i asked to see her but she said she had something to tell me, turns out she had taken some pills and vodka and was feeling sick and tired.
i was panickin but managed to keep her talking, tried to get her to go see her brothers, but she said they hit her and was scared of them, as i didnt know her adress myself to ring for an ambulance i tried to get it, but she was all drowsy, she couldnt even remember her name for gods sake!
after a bit there was silence, i was shouting down the fone but response was there none. i put the fone down feeling sick to the stomach, the only thing i could think of was to write a text message explaining the situation so her brothers could see it and knew what was happening.
just received a txt sayin she is off to hospital, i want to go but i feel i will get the **** beaten out of as her brothers threatened me following my ''no-show''
i feel helpless now, and i feel i could have done more
did i do the right thing? was there something i could have done better??