Would you hit a woman? Men only please.

[RobinPJ]

"Extreme circumstances" is massively open to interpretation. A situation one person may call extreme, another may not.

For this reason alone I think the poll and thread are a bit daft. If the original question was a bit more closed, for example, "Would you hit a woman if she was gobbing off at you?", or "would you hit a woman if she started throwing ornaments at you in an argument?", or "would you hit a woman if she crashed your car?", or "would you hit a woman if she laughed at the size of your cock?" or "would you hit a woman if she told you it made her horny?" or "would you hit a woman if she came at you with a claw hammer?) or "would you hit a woman if it was the only way to stop her from maiming you?" or "would you hit a woman if .................

I think you get the point. Different people, different definitions, different abilities, different circumstances, different reactions.

I can safely say that I have never hit any of the women who have laughed at the size of my cock. I guess I have just got used to it over the years.

Actually, Ben mentioning Thai girls got me thinking. I wonder if Shadeyman would hit a ladyboy?

 

[Ffoxy]

Good to see that "old fashioned values" are at least alive & well in parts of the world that are far less violence obsessed & accepting of dying social interaction.

Personally I feel that the growing internet culture has a lot to answer for... people just dont seem to interact as humans anymore... face to face meetings were far better for understanding than any internet Chat host, Twitter Facebook Blackberry or any other Messenger...

There may be some women who feel its OK for a man to hit them, I dont. Sure each one of us could conjure up some "what if" scenarios... but honestly... normal day to day... NFC I'd hit a woman.

 

[Venters]

Good to see that "old fashioned values" are at least alive & well in parts of the world that are far less violence obsessed & accepting of dying social interaction.

Personally I feel that the growing internet culture has a lot to answer for... people just dont seem to interact as humans anymore... face to face meetings were far better for understanding than any internet Chat host, Twitter Facebook Blackberry or any other Messenger...

There may be some women who feel its OK for a man to hit them, I dont. Sure each one of us could conjure up some "what if" scenarios... but honestly... normal day to day... NFC I'd hit a woman.

I don't think anyone is saying that day to day they would hit a woman. Despite what some are trying to make out.

 

[Dominion]

There may be some women who feel its OK for a man to hit them, I dont. Sure each one of us could conjure up some "what if" scenarios... but honestly... normal day to day... NFC I'd hit a woman.

Could not agree more

 

[306maxi]

Good to see that "old fashioned values" are at least alive & well in parts of the world that are far less violence obsessed & accepting of dying social interaction.

Personally I feel that the growing internet culture has a lot to answer for... people just dont seem to interact as humans anymore... face to face meetings were far better for understanding than any internet Chat host, Twitter Facebook Blackberry or any other Messenger...

There may be some women who feel its OK for a man to hit them, I dont. Sure each one of us could conjure up some "what if" scenarios... but honestly... normal day to day... NFC I'd hit a woman.

I think you've got the wrong end of the stick here. No one has said that they want to hit a woman, merely that if the need arised they would. For 99% of us that need will never arise.

I personally don't feel that it is necessary to hit anyone and haven't found it necessary for about 11 years or so now.

 

[neeny09]

so if you wife goes out to work and the man stays home doing the easy bit (that used to be called the hard bit when women did it) how does that make violence to either ok?

I didn't say it did make it ok! I meant that because people no longer have old fashioned values it makes it more common.

And i've done both bit's staying home and going to work and they are just as hard as each other for different reasons.

 

[306maxi]

Guys, a bit of friendly advice . . . just don't hit her.

Reasons:
1) Guys will say youre not a man coz you hit a girl
2) It won't make you popular with other girls
3) No matter if its right or wrong, its just not accepted, even if that may be wrong

An ex-girlfriend of mine is currently flaunting her new bf right under my nose really provokingly . . . what will I gain if I hit him/her? Probably get kicked out of University. Just keep walking and ignore. Keeps you out of trouble.

Word of advice . . . just don't start violence, be it a man or a woman, It invariably escalates gets ugly.

Turn the other cheek and be a man. So she's got another dude and she's parading him around, that makes her instantly not worth knowing.

I had a 2 year internet relationship with a girl in the UK, when I came here on holiday I let her know and said that I'd like to meet up just to actually see who it was that I was talking to for all that time. She wanted her boyfriend at the time to come with and I said no. Even though I had a girlfriend, I still didn't see why he had to be there, especially considering that he was the person she broke up with me to go off with.

Ended up meeting her after they'd broken up and satisfied my curiosity (no, not in that way ) and all was well.

No one on here has talked about hitting a woman just because she provokes you, people are talking about situations where bodily harm is going to be done. If you don't like what she's doing then remove yourself from the situation or just turn the other cheek.

 

[RobinPJ]

Turn the other cheek and be a man. So she's got another dude and she's parading him around, that makes her instantly not worth knowing.

I had a 2 year internet relationship with a girl in the UK, when I came here on holiday I let her know and said that I'd like to meet up just to actually see who it was that I was talking to for all that time. She wanted her boyfriend at the time to come with and I said no. Even though I had a girlfriend, I still didn't see why he had to be there, especially considering that he was the person she broke up with me to go off with.

Ended up meeting her after they'd broken up and satisfied my curiosity (no, not in that way ) and all was well.

No one on here has talked about hitting a woman just because she provokes you, people are talking about situations where bodily harm is going to be done. If you don't like what she's doing then remove yourself from the situation or just turn the other cheek.

Maxi, as it was you, we never thought that she might have let you satisfy yourself "in that way"...

(Please don't hit me!)

 

[306maxi]

Maxi, as it was you, we never thought that she might have let you satisfy yourself "in that way"...

(Please don't hit me!)

Well my wife wasn't quite so accepting. On reflection it was a daft thing to not tell her about. But male logic says that I should be able to talk to whoever I want and as long as I don't shag them it's all good!

 

[AudiTT 83]

i will admit i read the first 2 pages and the last page, i agree with reasonable force, for example if my wife play slaps me, i will play slap her back but at a similar force to how she slapped me. if i was presented with a violent woman in the street i would first walk away, if she followed then go for restraint. i would think nothing of hitting if she has a weapon such as a knife or bat, but only as a last resort to defend myself.


personally i don't think this shows a lack or traditional values or not being a gentleman as i will still hold open doors and pull out chairs. but women in the media are now portrayed as larger swilling violent louts, why should it be wrong to defend against one of these ? i would never dream of hitting a "Victorian Lady" but there are very very few of those women now.

 

[raphjd]

Women want equality, so they should expect equality.


BTW, Lizzie Borden was a "Victorian Lady" and look at what she did.

Here's the nurser rhyme;

"Lizzie Borden took an ax and gave her mother 40 whacks, and when she had seen what she'd done, she turned and gave her father 41".

 

[naff123]

Way OTT On the sentence it seems to my Shadey your getting bombarded with Pro Feminist's on this thread at the end of the day I was taught if your big enough to hit your big enough to be hit back

 

[306maxi]

Way OTT On the sentence it seems to my Shadey your getting bombarded with Pro Feminist's on this thread at the end of the day I was taught if your big enough to hit your big enough to be hit back

I think the best thing is when people are big enough NOT to hit.

 

[naff123]

haha of course its best to walk away but I learnt that the hard way in Majorca had way to many to drink some butch bloke about 6'6 about 6 ft wide got in my way an luckily i managed to out run the dude

But I was always taught to never be the attacker just to defend ones self no matter who it was

 

[Venters]

Way OTT On the sentence it seems to my Shadey your getting bombarded with Pro Feminist's on this thread at the end of the day I was taught if your big enough to hit your big enough to be hit back

I think maybe you need to actually read the posts in this thread.
Or do you actually believe it's okay to smash a someone's skull in if they are being annoying?

 

[naff123]

Like its ok to batter some bloke because he don't wanna be with her so shock of all when he hits her back just the once after a good while of assault.

It takes two venters accidents happen like in this case we are talking about but at the end of the day she deserved a Slap for belting him

 

[Venters]

Like its ok to batter some bloke because he don't wanna be with her so shock of all when he hits her back just the once after a good while of assault.

It takes two venters accidents happen like in this case we are talking about but at the end of the day she deserved a Slap for belting him

I'm don't know what you are saying.

 

[dave]

i think they are saying that you cant say its ok for men to defend themselves against a woman, but then turn around when some one does and say they shouldnt have, just because the strenth of them being a man caused more damage than they intended,

 

[Venters]

i think they are saying that you cant say its ok for men to defend themselves against a woman, but then turn around when some one does and say they shouldnt have, just because the strenth of them being a man caused more damage than they intended,

Then it's back to reasonable force.

I've had bruises and blood drawn from the kids. Does that mean if I then smashed their skull to pieces I should get away with it?

 

[dave]

Then it's back to reasonable force.

then its back to how did they guy know it want reasonable force, how would he know his 1 hit would do so much damage? how do you know the force behind your punch, it don't have a built in torque gauge