Thanks for all the contributions everybody.
I know consumption is very variable, depending as it does on driving technique, weight, temperature, topograhy and traffic. I had no idea wheel size made so much difference either.
My old Doblo Diesel gives about 45, almost regardless of speed. Indeed, I have more than once got 45+ after 500 mile journeys with the speedoneter never reading much below 80, and sometimes more. It can drop to the 30s in town in winter when used for regular short runs.
I just don't want a new Diesel, for varous reasons, and I reckon that if I could get similar performance and roughly similar economy from a small petrol car, whilst still enjoying the driving, I would be quids in, certainly based on the cheaper price of petrol and zero road tax. Certainly I should be no worse off and in truth as I don't expect to be doing so many long journeys in future so routine high speed running will be less significant.
I'm hanging in there though because buying a car is always a balance of compromises and I'm in no hurry.
It really does seem that 40+mpg is about as much as anyone can realistically expect from any petrol car (driven by me

), almost regardless of size, but low tax and small size certainly appeal where regular urban popping in and out of the car and hunting for scarce parking spaces is routine. Driving pleasure matters too of course.
Thanks again.