This is funny reading. Last November I got a 307 for my wife since that's what she really wanted (based mainly on looks), although we did have one as a hire car a few years ago and liked it a lot. I had no chance in getting her to want a Stilo due to the local Fiat dealers who couldn't either do a test drive - because there was nobody there on a saturday afternoon at 3pm (yes Bishops of Guildford, I'm talking about you). Or because it was a Sunday and only one salesman there, and no Stilo demonstrator (Cleveland Cars are usually better than that).
Anyway, now she says she likes driving it, having got used to the very high clutch (still slipping it a bit though), but for parking "It's too big". Fair enough, particlayy at her work car park (NHS) which is always full and has tiny spaces. So I'm happy to drive it more, but that means she has to drive my Punto. Her legs hit the steering column, so she doesn't like it. I think about changing for something else, she says: Must be small, 5dr for practicality, and look good (I agree on that one - perhaps the Panda's looks would grow on us...). Out goes the Smart Roadster, or the Punto HGT JTD. I think I'll have to take her car and force her to drive my Punto!
My advice. Make her drive it. On her own. Make her get used to it. Put her favourite CDs in, fill it with fuel and let her get on with it. A long drive to visit someone and she will hopefully come back used to and liking the car. Of course, phone whoever she's going to see to comment on how fantastic she looks driving the car etc etc...