Yeah, thats basically what i've done I think with the red and yellow wires. They are joined on the stereo side of the iso connection wire. The fiat connection wires remain unchanged.
I suppose it makes sense that the factory fitted units must use the can wires to know when to power on and off with the ignition, because those are the only wires left that could do that! Unfortunately, unless anyone else has any bright ideas, we're pretty stuck in terms of having our aftermarkets come on and off with the ignition.
I would also agree with you about the face plates. Simply popping them off whilst the stereo is on would probably mess up the electronics eventually, but I dont think that was really the issue we were talking about, since you just have to turn the unit 'off' with the power button first.
The main problem we were talking about was to do with, if you leave the faceplate on and the stereo off, the stereo is still using power. Mine says 'All Off' on the screen constantly, and its this 'standby' which is the problem in terms of battery consumption. The question was, if you remove the stereo faceplate, does the stereo power off 'more completely' (if that makes sense) and consume less battery?
I work away alot, and dont want to be coming back home after a week to find the car is dead due to the stereo.