Am sure if the OP comes back all will be forgotten pretty soon...would be a shame if they didn't as there is plenty of useful stuff to be found on here.
Especially as both the original (quite reasonable) question & the answer I posted earlier (sorry it took 3 days but I do have a life outside of this forum) might help both the OP and other folks as well.
Sadly this is now buried in 3 pages of posts which basically seem to be arguing about the way we argue