GeorgeT,
How do install the relay that you are suggesting for the headlights and where can I get one?
Search the Fiat Forums for "Headlight Relay Installation" for specifics, but it is as follows:
1. You will need two relays, one for high beams and one for low beams.
2. Mount the relays in the engine bay (I mounted mine on the inner fender, near the alternator).
3. Cut the low beam wire going to one headlight and attach it to the low amperage lug on one relay.
4. Attach the low beam wires going to the headlights to the high amperage lug.
5. There are several attachment points for 12v for the headlghts but I tapped off the aternator output terminal going to the battery.
6. Repeat for the high beams.
7. Be sure to ground the relays.
Once you do this, only the low current required to operate the relays will go through the ignition and light switches, extending their lives as well as having brighter lights.