best thing to do mel would be to find a cruising site for the area you're interested in and go on the forums - they'll have details of meets and cruises!
as i'm not from dahn sarf i'm not sure what the sites are but try cruise then your area that's what they're normally called!
cheers hun! guessing websites was something i tried - i found a few lists on forums, just thought id ask - its for a project, i know Ace is wed was hoping there might be something tonight or tues, but the larger ones are on weekends anyway -