many men feel that way, but few women.
ever wondered why you feel the need to shag everything that crosses your path, or why the first thing you think when you see a woman is whether or not you'd have sex with her?
its our nature. life only has one purpose, to survive. survival depends on reproduction. that is why our most powerful driving forces are 100% to do with reproduction. men want to donate sperm and support/protect women, women want to have kids.
like many men i dont want kids but i do want sex. i keep telling myself that i can ignore most other natural urges (murder, having sex with other women, stealing etc.) so i can surely ignore the urge to deliver sperm as well. the world's population is so huge than no single person needs to have kids to ensure the continuatioin of the species, in fact we are at the point where not having kids will give the species as a whole a better chance of survival.
however recent events in human behaviour cant change millions of years of natural instinct, so i am doomed to spend most of my time thinking about sex, and my partner is doomed to spend most of her time thinking about children.
fingers crossed i'm infertile, that would be the greatest blessing nature can give a man.
LOL! What a fantastic post. Can't give 'Thanks' in this section, though
Some of us have our powerful driving forces cross-wired (for some reason) so that there wouldn't be any reproduction anyway. We don't need to get as far as thinking about babies. Or if we did, it would just be an act with someone we liked, but weren't attracted to... would that be morally right?
I wonder if you've seen http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3UXrnDhcf4&feature=rec-HM-r2 I don't agree with that but it does show that our efforts to reduce the world population might be futile.
-Alex
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