A normal 17mm socket should work fine on the sump plug unless its been butchered by a previous owner, it should be metal not plastic so if its too round for a socket i'd get yourself a new sump plug then remove the old one with mole grips or irwin bolt removers if you have them, when you replace the sump plug make sure it goes in straight as its a tapered plug and is easily cross-threaded.
The air filter is best changed by first removing the whole engine cover/intake unit from the car by removing the 3 bolts (one on either side and one at the top), then unclip the large intake pipes that come from the front of the car and connect to the throttle body, there is also a small clip holding a breather pipe right at the top above the intake manifold which just pulls out.
When you have the filter assembly off the car just undo the six bolts that hold the removable panel on and change the filter inside....refitting is reversal of removal.
Its also worth mentioning that the protective panel under the engine needs to removed to gain access to the oil filter.