Hello mate, unfortunately I cannot be of more help through the virtual reality, as what we made on my car required custom modifications.
Basically Alfa Romeo 159 with 1.9 JTD 16V (150HP) engine uses Opel gearbox and correct flywheel, clutch push mechanism to do the trick. The flywheel, clutch and the plate fit with no modifications required at all. Flywheel fits with old bolts. What is required is to modify the clutch pump, the original one from Stilo.
First time we bolted the kit with no modifications to the pump, everything was a straight fit, but the clutch was slipping a lot, since the pump never engaged it fully.
Than after some calculations on the clutch pump movement, my mechanics modified the pump (don't ask me what and how as I didn't go through the whole process, and I'm not a technical person), and now the car has more than 1000 km with rock solid results.
From what I read, Opel guys say that 200+ hp remaps with the original flywheel (150HP, as the one I have and the one which is installed on 159s) are not a problem.
Also have in mind that the original DM flywheel+clutch are rated 150hp/320Nm, so even with a very aggressive remap on the Stilo you are somewhere below the OEM specs of the whole kit.
All in all you have to have a very serious mechanics who will agree to try such an experiment and make it true with skills.
Hope I helped you in any way.
Best Regards,
Radoslav