Flat driver sockets look like a hexagon and the driver force is exerted on all six of the flats of the nut by all 6 of the flats of the socket. Get one from Halfords. Usual sockets have multiple possible positions for you to easily slip the socket onto the nut, but only grip the nut on the corners. Over time sockets wear and it is easy to wreck nuts as the sockets tend to turn the corners if a lot of force is used. I wondered why all my sockets seemed to slip so easily, and after close inspection have thrown 9/10 away as they were worn out. My initial problem was with the much used 10mm socket in my 1/4 in drive set. I now have a top quality flat drive socket set bought off ebay cheap. The ratchet did not work properly. Its amazing what a wire brush can do though. With a drop of oil and a clean they work as they should and that saved me around £100!