R.I.P. Eddie.

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R.I.P. Eddie.

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No-one on here knew Eddie, except me of course. Eddie was our window cleaner/gutter emptier/drain unblocker etc. He was well known locally and had been doing our windows for about 15 years. The thing was though, we didn't even know his surname. In fact almost no-one did. He wasn't married and had never had kids.

As he was somewhere between 65 and 75, I would say he was always pretty fit, in fact the worst you could say about him was that he probably could have been a bit more a bit more careful with his haircare. He could be seen all over the area riding his bike with a ladder over one shoulder and used to tell me about the 1930's Riley he had in his back yard and all the inventions he had come up with but didn't know how to file a patent.

About 20 years ago he found a pair of 5 year old twins hiding in his shed where they'd run away to to hide from their Mother's abusive boyfriend. He persuaded them to go home and gave evidence to the Police and in Court that resulted in the boyfriend being locked up and then forbidden by injunction from going to Denton for life. He then kept an eye on them and even paid for their holidays.

He became so friendly with the family, as the boys grew up, he'd even give them his PIN number and ask them to get money from the ATM for him. Not only that, but he'd even included them in his will. Lately though, he found out the trust he'd put in them had been betrayed as they were taking out more than they should have.

Last Friday, he went to his Doctors having had chest pains for several days. Instead of calling an Ambulance as he should have, the Doctor wrote him a letter as a referral to Hospital and he went the next day. While he was being assessed he suffered a massive heart attack and was incapable of being resuscitated.

It would appear he changed his will a few days before he died.

Why am I putting all this when nobody on the FF has a clue who he was? Well
simply because he is a dying (sic) breed. One day, while cleaning the window of one of his regulars he noticed the back door was open. Instead of moving on and ignoring it, he stayed in the back yard, in the rain for 4 hours until the householder came home. We are rapidly losing the characters in our society and Eddie certainly came under that heading.

After he'd gone, we realised how little we knew about him, but one thing's for sure; he knew a hell of a lot about everybody else.

Ta-ra Eddie, see you on the other side.
 
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Thanks for your comments folks. There's no-one to write a testimonial for old Eddie; so I thought I'd do it myself.
 
seems like a good sound bloke, despite not having kids / family nearby sounds like he will be missed - some of the people that'll miss him might not even realise he's helped them. RIP.
 
A very rare breed indeed.

Trusting and honest. A proper all-round good guy.

It really is a shame there aren't more like him.

We all could do with an Eddie in our lives.
 
I went to the funeral last weds of a friend/fellow CO-OP manager, all round good guy like eddie, good on him changing his will when people betray his trust, as anne robinson says" you leave with nothing"
 
Call me cynical, but as the generations go on, I think there will be less and less people like Eddie....

They were the characters that made Britain 'Great'....

RIP Eddie.... :wave:
 
Unfortunately, as has been said, with the changes of generations, so the standards we expect from our fellow human beings has also changed. Maybe it's a result of Government and other Official interference in our lives, maybe it's celebrities behaving badly.

I don't know anyone of my generation who could tell you where they saw in print the story about Keith Moon throwing TVs out of hotel windows. It's just gone down in legend. The same for Ozzie Osbourne urinating on the Alamo.

When Norman "Bites yer legs" Hunter would foul George Best, the only people who saw it were probably in Elland Road or Old Trafford and therefore a hundred yards from the incident. Even if it was on Tele, the broadcasting technology wasn't really good enough to give much detail.

Now, the behaviour of celebrities is reported weekly in Hello and OK and countless other magazines. It's on the News within a few hours. When Ronaldo takes a dive (of course he never did that when he was at United), it can be dissected from half a dozen different angles in a matter of seconds. For some reason, it's not the player that gets blamed for cheating very often, but the Referee for not seeing it.

It's all so much more accessible now. Pop/Rock stars, footballers, politicians and actors were demi-gods and as such what they did was the stuff of rumours and legends. Now we think they're little different from us so why can't we do the same things.

The general population have an infinitely better lifestyle than they did when I was growing up; in fact then life was generally better then than when my parents and grandparents were young. With (more) cars and exotic holidays, plus with all the commentators, politicians and Quango members all trying to justify their jobs, the message we're getting is: Do what you want, when you want to do it and don't let anyone tell you what to do.

Margaret Thatcher was quoted as saying "Society is dead, there is only the individual." So she did, but there was more to the comment that is seldom reported. What is perhaps more important is the message from the Media. How many times have you heard adverts on tele saying "Demand.....this, or that."? When Mrs. Beard used to work for BSM in Macclesfield or Granada in Altrincham, one of the most heard comments from customers in those areas, were: "Do you know who I am?" Or even worse, "Do you know who my Husband is?" We seem to be so wrapped up in trying to impress others, we lose sight of who we are.

Maybe John F. Kennedy said it best when he said: "Ask not what your country can do for you, rather what you can do for your country."
 
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Yes.

RIP Eddie, and on behalf of everyone he cared for and looked after, raise a glass to him and his breed tonight.

The Beard.
What a nice guy you are... (y)
 
Yes.

RIP Eddie, and on behalf of everyone he cared for and looked after, raise a glass to him and his breed tonight.

The Beard.
What a nice guy you are... (y)
Thanks mate. That's earned you a couple of extra sausages when I get back to work.

Erm, you are the same Ffoxy as the small red-ish dog like creature that turns up on the Cargo Centre about 5 am aren't you? Because if so, you don't look like your Sig.
 
Thanks mate. That's earned you a couple of extra sausages when I get back to work.

Erm, you are the same Ffoxy as the small red-ish dog like creature that turns up on the Cargo Centre about 5 am aren't you? Because if so, you don't look like your Sig.

Lmao I'll be who or what you want me to be Beardy! (y)

Seriously... that was a nice obituary...:)
 
An "eddie" left me a note on the bora the other week to say one of my back tyres was flat, he waited on a chair outside his house for me to get back to the car after I finished work - when he spotted me walking towards my car he came out and explained he'd left the note on the windscreen, but wanted to make sure I knew what it was and didn't just drive off. He even offered to change it for me as I was in shirt and trousers.

I'd say there's still a few genuine nice people out there, but they are definately getting few and far between.

R.I.P Eddie, I didn't know you but I know the mold from which you came (y)

Kind words from the Beard for a kind man.
 
An "eddie" left me a note on the bora the other week to say one of my back tyres was flat, he waited on a chair outside his house for me to get back to the car after I finished work - when he spotted me walking towards my car he came out and explained he'd left the note on the windscreen, but wanted to make sure I knew what it was and didn't just drive off. He even offered to change it for me as I was in shirt and trousers.

I'd say there's still a few genuine nice people out there, but they are definately getting few and far between.

R.I.P Eddie, I didn't know you but I know the mold from which you came (y)

Kind words from the Beard for a kind man.
While we were on holiday in New York about 4 years ago, we were going to catch the train to Baltimore from Penn Station. As we got to the station we had to get the escalator down the the Concourse and realised it wasn't working. With 2 big cases and a couple of smaller bags it was going to be a bit of a challenge, until an elderly black guy appeared and offered to help. We got down to the bottom and I asked if I could buy him a coffee of a beer and he accepted $2 for his trouble.

I think I knew at the back of my mind that he had turned the escalator off himself as I'd been told this was quite a common occurrance, but he looked like he needed the money so I didn't mind.

Sometimes ulterior motives can mask the noble ones, but equally, we make our own minds up which are which, although I'm constantly surprised how, even in this day and age there are people who are prepared to put themselves out for others without any expectation of reward. Long may the Eddies keep going.
 
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