Bad luck mate but at least you're ok. I'd be pissed if they hadn't of written it off, you never feel the same about a car once it's been damage repaired and they're difficult to sell because you have to declare that information.
Apparently, the Stilo is difficult to write off, it's something to do with the panel design, they are so cheap and easy to repair you'd have to roll it for it to be written off, that's why insurance preniums are so low on them.
James, I'm not suprised you wrote off a Saxo, what were you doing with a Chavs car anyway? Or are you a closet Chav?