Hi again, thanks for all the replies since I last checked. A lot of food for thought!
I learnt in a Corsa that was a standard auto for anyone wondering.
My budget (not set in stone) is around £7000, but could stretch to £11000 ish if I relied on a finance deal, or pushed the boat out for a new car rather than a used one!
Can't remember who questioned it but as far as I'm aware the Toyota IQ did have a standard automatic option (although granted it is hard to find one). Also the newer smart cars 2014-Present have a standard auto gear box. My other half has been doing some research for me thankfully
Went to the renault dealership near me today and looked at the twingo (which was ideal, stylish, small and available in auto) however as the auto option is new, you cant get a used one, and its a 3-5 month waiting time if i bought a new one... and I don't want to wait anywhere near that long so its now off my list. Also because it was new, and an auto it was a little over my top end budget although with finance it may have been manageable.
Whilst I was there though I cam across a used Renault Zoe, electric car (therefor fully auto, like a go cart!) £7995, one previous owner, less than 2000 miles on the clock. Very pretty, top specs! Very tempting, will do more research but it does look like possibly one to go for. Sat in it, got a feel for it, it is just lovely. Will test drive if I end up serious about potentially buying it. Downside is the 100 mile range before it runs out of battery... however as I'm likely to be driving around 15 miles a day this shouldn't be an issue for me. I'm not one for adventuring, just want to do my daily commute! Its also a little bigger than I'd like, but its no bigger than the Corsa I learnt in. Its more of an electric super mini than the tiny city car I was initially looking for, Look at me learning the lingo eh!
Thanks for the recommendation of the i10, its not the most fashionable, but it certainly looks like a good option from a practicality point of view. I'm hopefully going to a Hyundai dealership and a Smart / Mercedes dealership tomorrow (if they are open)
I'll let you know how I get on
Thanks again everyone