just wondering if any of yous know a soloution to this
its no big deal though it would be great to fix it
ok, when i go open the car by the remote buttons on the key fob onli the drivers side opens, if i hit it a few times the passenger side then decides to open
when im inside the car if i hit the lock and unlock buttons on the drivers door both work perfect instantly
any ideas on how to make the passenger door open in sync with the drivers door?

Just going on memory - but have you checked your 'MyCar' setup ?

i dont know how to
i didnt get a manual with the car so i am lost when it comes to the controls

Press the 'Menu' button on the dash, scroll through until you get to 'Driver lock' (or similar- I'm doing this from memory!) and turn it to 'off'. Should stop this locking issue.

There's also an option to lock the doors when pulling away ('Speed lock'), and to isolate the tailgate from the main central locking so it only opens with the key/boot button on the fob ('Independant boot').

These are all common 'faults' which customers bring up without realising they're standard options!

You're going to have problems without a manual

MyCar is the main driver communication interface to your Stilo so it's quite important.

This thread might give a few clues

Had the same problem with mine to the point that the door wouldn't actually unlock even though the central locking worked. Turned out it was because the lock had never being used so the barrel had seized slighty. Couple of turns with the key in the lock sorted it out