Ok guys got them fitted! I am running 605 mm front and 625 mm rear, (I think I was 635 front and 655 rear before). Its really not that low no problems bottoming out the car (it was 595 mm front initially with the front ride hight at the middle section but I said that's way too low for Greek roads so I raised it even though Bosch car service was encouraging me to keep it that level and lower the rears to match!)
Car handles like no other, its literally on rails, so far I have not managed to reach the limits, but it seems the limits are tire grip and not suspension.
About firmness? To be honest its really not that bad but yes speed bumps can be a bit of an annoyance and you feel everything on the road!
Will update as I drive more and more.