You worry too much..

You need one of each size hose clip - the radiator connector is bigger than the heater connector.
Screws? - shouldn't need any. Used for the brackets holding the pipe in place. Both are 10mm heads, so if they come out ok you can use the same ones again.
No separate gaskets on water pump end (it's a rubber-type seal already fitted on the new pipe) and no sealer needed. Just a little WD or even washing up liquid so that it pushes in easily.
Yes, you will lose all the coolant!! Any good quality all-year antifreeze/anti-corrosive from your local motor factors/garage/supermarket will do. Follow the instructions for dilution ratio. There is a bleed screw at the back of the engine on a heater hose (easily spotted, like a tyre valve cap). Fill up via header tank cap, and run the engine briefly until no more bubbles come from that valve then reseal it.
Top up header tank to correct level, then warm engine up fully. Recheck the coolant level, and if needed bleed any remaining air from the heater pipe after releasing excess pressure by loosening the header tank cap a little. Don't want you scalding yourself