Effectively, the part numbers must be absolutely identical. You would need to consult Fiat to find out if there are superceded part numbers which are compatible, but they will only advise fitting a new ECU.
Be very careful, you are playing with the SRS system operation. Fitting an incorrect ECU could cause the system to malfunction or fail to operate when required. How would you determine that a used ECU is functional and safe?
If yours has malfunctioned, have a look at Crashdata.co.uk - depending on the problem, they may be able to repair it or supply a suitable fully tested replacement unit, reprogrammed to be a drop-in replacement for yours.
Any other replacement, new or used, will need programming to your van.