No disrespect but if you don't know whether it's running on 3 or 4 cylinders you need to find a good independent or local mechanic that can help you.
Having said that, if you've changed the plugs - I'd check that first.
With the car running, take off each spark plug lead in turn, USE insulated pliers and don't grip too hard. If the car is running on 3 cylinders, taking the faulty plug lead off will not make a difference.