You don't specify which gearbox seal?
When it comes to many vehicle components, including gaskets, seals, bearing, whole gear boxes etc. then generally all manufacturers source these parts (custom designed or not) from other manufacturer's often referred to a OEM suppliers. So a Fiat gasket P.No.123456789 which may be stamped with Fiat will come form a quality OEM gasket manufacturer such a Spesso (
https://spesso.com/) who also serve the "aftermarket".
Also the OEM (say gasket) is produced to aggressive price targets and in some cases can be inferior to their aftermarket enhanced products.
An example of this would be those semi rigid grey gaskets used on cylinder head applications. The enhanced after market version come with the silicon rubber beading (often red/orange in colour) that give a superior and longer lasting seal compared to those without.
So basically there is no problem with OEM aftermarket, OR aftermarket from a "quality" manufacturer.
Often you have no choice as Fiat have a good reputation of "NLA" (no longer available)