Good luck. You'll notice the stark difference in performance from 40mph+ in the diesel. I still love it how on hills on the motorway it just breezes past far bigger cars with little fuss. Amazing to think it's really only a 1.2!!! Strange how fiat classify the petrol at 1242cc as a 1.2, while the 1248cc diesel is a 1.3.
One bugbear to take notice of is the turning circle in the MJD. The 1.2 has a tight turning circle but for some reason the MJD feels far bigger (more than the official stats suggest) and it annoys a bit at first until you get used to it.
With respect to overall costs your comments are concurrent with mine. You'd expect £300-£500 quid extra resale value for the MJD vs the TA, depending on how long you keep it for plus fuel bills around £100-£200 per year less for average miles. Easy to see the £1,000 premium being wiped out.
I specced ours in lounge in BNW with tan leather, climate, italian stripe, sunroof, rubbing strip. Be wary of the standard seats, in the 1.2 sport I hired the middle portions looked v tatty and uncleanable and in a lot of the light coloured materials in other specs get messed up easily. Leather is a must imo, as are 15" wheels.