I couldn't agree more and you know the odd thing is I was exactly the same in my teens.Thanks I just hate the idea of modding - i just don't see why someone would buy something they like, only to completely change it. And what bothers me more is that too often the money seems to be spent on the mods, and not on the basics like the oil & coolant changes.
I suppose I've always had something of a 'reputation' and the fun for me was taking on bigger engined cars. The difference for me was I always kept my motor in top condition and was therefore happy to push it to its very limits ('combat' ready as I would call it :devil. I'm not condoning that behaviour - we all do stupid stuff when we're young - and I was just lucky to get away with it
Like you I find the brakes fine on my 5 door - not that I'm a great advocate of heavy braking