Hi
I've been where you are now, but with -10 degrees weather too (although not far off now).
My new alternator was, like yours, slightly larger than the original one, so know where you're coming from. The way that I did it was to jack the engine up via the rear of the sump, which allows it the engine to move forwards enough just to allow the alternator to be wiggled into place for you.
I was expecting to take the drive shaft off, but never needed to. If you do this and still need a little bit of extra room, you could undo the top engine stabilizer mount, which is located on the top left of the engine when looking from the front. It is sat below the diesel filter on my car, on the inside of the wing. This is easy enough to undo and swing out of the way to give you the extra couple of mm of room.