If you use a manufacturer specif interface module which is designed to plug directly into the Croma wiring system the I believe this is all you need for the lights.
However these units are a) rare and b) very expensive.
On all modern cars one should ALWAYS use the seven way bypass control unit. These also have the manditory audio repeater for the indicator lights.
Next year (I think it is next year) tow bars and electrics become an MOT testable item so must comply with all the relevant regulations. If you don't have audio/visual safety repeater function then you will fail the MOT.
With my detachible towbar the electric socket is a single 13 Pin affair which swings/folds up and down. It pivots left/right folding leftwards up behind the bumper.
To fit towbar and electrics the rear bumper and lights have to come off and the back end of the exhaust has to be dropped. All holes required to be drilled (on my towbar) were straight forward vertical inline ones. No fancy right angle drill heads required.
Two things to do/watch out for:
1) make the 7 way relay feeds as far away as possible from the rear light units. This ensures that if you mess up or have other problems you are not compromising the wiring loom close to the light unit connectors. Arround central wheel arch area is a good place. Mistakes here can be easily corrected.
2) if you have a folding/swivel up/down socket then you need to plan for a nice large diameter loop/curve so that the wire does not twist in the back of the connector when the socket is rotated through 90 degrees.
Basically before starting the wiring have a dummy layout to check all component positions and cable runs.
The towbar I fitted was a Brink 4361
Brink have been purchased by Thule and the Brink brand is being dropped.
http://www.thuletowbars.com/upload/manuals/436170.pdf