Mine gets the following every weekend;
-Vacuum interior
-Rinse off car with water
-Blast the wheel arches with hosepipe to remove heavy deposits of dirt
-Clean wheels with wheel brush and rinse off
-Wash bodywork using lambswool mitt, AutoGlym car shampoo, two buckets (one for clean water, one for rinsing)
-Rinse off each panel with a light sprinkle from the hose as I go along
-Dry all glass with a drying blade
-Dry with Meguairs Water Magnet for bodywork
-Dry with old chamois for door jambs, boot lid and under bonnet areas
-Clean interior all over with Turtlewax wipes
-Clay off any tar spots or heavy dirt
-Clean chrome with Meguairs Quick Detailer
Then every two weeks;
-Scrub under wheel arches with an old brush
-Wax car all over with Meguairs Gold Class Wax
-Reblacken any dark areas with TurtleWax Black in a Flash
-Polish exhaust with an old cloth and Meguairs Quick Detailer
-Polish all windows except for windscreen and rear window with AutoGlym Glass cleaner
Once it's been cleaned and whatnot it usually get ruined a few days later due to the amount of dirt and mud etc. on the roads but it's still worth it. I get a lot of trouble from relatives, neighbours etc. who keep saying 'You'll wash it away!' but one of my neighbours cleans his car using washing up liquid and a broom.