If you can, send the National clutch kit back and get a refund. You should be able to if it was bought on line (distance selling etc). As your mechanic friend said, it's always best to match clutch & DMF where possible. The price difference between what you paid for the National and the LUK one from buypartsby is so small it's not worth taking the chance. If you get the clutch at the same time as the DMF, delivery won't cost any extra either.
The price for the bolts from carparts4less includes delivery, I believe (as is true for all their prices).
The price for the bolts from carparts4less includes delivery, I believe (as is true for all their prices).