Hi Peter, I was using a rubber item under my alloy rocker box and had the same problem as you, the rubber was going hard anyway. I have to say that I am now using cork gaskets on mine and providing I am careful it does not leak! Always make sure to clean both surfaces with something like methylated spirit (no residue) and don't on any account allow the area to become even the slightest contaminated with oil during the fitting. Also don't over do the nut torque as you can squeeze the gasket out from the sealing position. Take your time doing the nuts up a little at a time and leave it to settle between goes. Unfortunately if the gasket becomes contaminated it will only get worse as in my experience tightening it down more just dislodges the gasket from it's seat and increases the leak!!!!
Ian.
I agree 100% with what Ian says above.
Especially the part about ensuring that no oil gets between the sealing surfaces. Some people think a little oil won't cause a problem, IT WILL!
Some even apply a film of grease to gaskets - somewhere back in the mists of time this fallacy was started and continues to this day! Ask people why they do it, they'll say it helps the gasket fit better/ seal better/ prevents the gaskets sticking to a surface etc. etc. Yet workshop manuals say clean the gasket surfaces and fit the gasket dry!!
I worked in a Fiat dealership back in the 1970's/'80's. Often had to 'dress' pressed steel valve covers to straighten flanges distorted by overtightening. Once this was done, a new, preferably rubberoid type gasket was fitted DRY and gently snugged down - no further leaks! Same applied on other makes of vehicle at that time also.
One thing I discovered was why does oil or grease (which is oil in a soap) on the gasket sealing surface result in a leak....
It's due to a process called afaik 'capillarity' (I'm no scientist!!) or maybe 'wicking'. The oil film provides a path for further oil to follow. The pressure is greater inside the engine than outside, so oil tries to flow outwards. This flow increases as the engine heats up and the oil film heats up (warm oil flows better). As some oil weeps out, more oil is drawn into the space vacated between the gasket and the surface being sealed.
2 further thoughts!
If you can only get a cork (as opposed to a rubberoid) gasket, do not despair. If you do as Ian (Bleeding Knuckles) above says it will likely seal just fine. But what I do on valve covers that won't be removed for many,many 1000's miles e.g. OHC engines is to apply a light smear of Hylomar or similar non-hardening sealant to the inside vertical face of the cork gasket. Some use a shellac type gasket goo, but I'm extremely wary of this stuff. Your decision, your risk!
Where pressed steel valve covers are held down by nuts on studs sealed by fibre washers, I reckon most fibre washers are too hard to be sealed by lightly tightened nuts. There are better sealing washers available (e.g. Dowty washers- aluminium washer with a built-in inner rubber seal) but I use a smear of Hylomar sealer on the both faces of the fibre washer
or use a fibre washer with a larger bore and insert a rubber 'O' ring in the space between the threaded stud and the fibre washer
or use a rubber washer if I have one to hand.
Guys here with lathes could machine a small groove on the underside of the valve cover nuts to accept rubber 'o' rings.
P.S. Please don't even mention using silicone type sealants in an engine when I'm in the room 'cause I'll break out in a cold sweat and start shaking!
Al.