This is being massively over-complicated. Assemble the shifter with new seal, new roll pin and make sure the bush with long ears is coated against the casing. Fit it to the breadbox without sealant (five M8 bolts). Move the levers to check everything works. Remove and refit the cover with sealant, reconnect the cables and take the car for a drive.
If loosening the wrong bolts is a worry remove the gearbox end cover and have a look. You will need working shifters to make sure it's all moving correctly. De-rust and repaint your cover while it's off the car. Then put it back, fill up the gear oil and use the car.