Depressing Horiffic Realisations

[manthatkidisscrewed]

My DHR: The more you try to make something of yourself and of your life - the more you will get obstacles thrown in to your way :bang:

Yeah, theyre the ones with real scars on their arms, not just talking about it

Ah but how can you tell - they normally have so many layers of black clothing on that you can never see their skin to tell!

Sorry lol. Was I meant to give a reason?

Its basically that I was trying to my hardest to keep my relationship on the right track and I was happy. I harder I tried to keep him with me the more it pushed him away and after 3 and a half years he ended it.
So basically...The more I tried to keep things to together just made things worse.

This sucks but if you were the one making all the effort and trying so hard to keep him with you then was it really right? People should stay with people because they want to - it shouldn't have to be a lot of hard effort on either side as it should come easily. I also found this out the hard way

 

[volxstu]

'Real Emo's' ?

Dear lord.

I dont mean in the sense of the word as it means now and i would never really call myself an Emo (apart from then lol).
I mean the values and the way that these kids try to copy people who genuinely have issues. I for one tend to suffer in silence apart from the odd rant on the forum and yes it does often show in the way that a dress or my hair does change on a daily basis, but it is natural not something that is done to fit in or make a statement.

 

[punto_matt]

My Depressing Horiffic Realisation is that the powers that be here will not be removing a certain mod of this forum despite him being utter w@nk.

 

[lozzie]

Realising that once my car is here, I have to face the horrible reality of paying for it

 

[punto_matt]

No Job after friday and still have to pay for my car

This is by no means having a go at you but i just dont understand why everybody ran out and got huge loans beyond their means to buy a car just because they could. It is this reason why i cant get a mortgage now and house prices have gone through the roof in recent years.
Yes i borrowed a bit of money for my car but from a source that i know wouldnt do me over if i lost my pretty safe job. And i dint go borrow like 10G+ for my first car when i am 17.
I really feel for you mate times are hard and it's $hit for everybody but you have made your bed now lye in it. It would be upset for you if you lost your car but at least if you did you would learn not to try and live beyond your means again.

You really are a bellend at times. You have no right to say what you did above. You have no knowledge of his situation so why do you think you can tell him hes lived beyond his means and he has made his bed so he should lie in it?

Yeah he took a loan out, no info on how much it was so you cant say its too much, living beyond his means? Erm ok how have you worked that out? While he was working he was perfectly capable of paying it back which in my book isnt living beyond your means. Not everyone has the option to borrow from relatives so if he needed the money for a car and couldnt use relatives where else do you suggest he goes as a source of finance that wouldnt do him over?

 

[volxstu]

Oh and my other is if i meet a certain somebody im not sure if i helf help but rip there head off

 

[punto_matt]

Realising that once my car is here, I have to face the horrible reality of paying for it

Careful "i know everying Volxstu" will be along telling you that you are living beyond your means in a minute.

 

[Superstarless]

This sucks but if you were the one making all the effort and trying so hard to keep him with you then was it really right? People should stay with people because they want to - it shouldn't have to be a lot of hard effort on either side as it should come easily. I also found this out the hard way

Yeah I do understand. I was really scared of losing him so I held on so tight but that just pushed him away. I need to deal with my insecuritys I think lol. Its hard when you put so much into something and it falls apart, espeically after such a long time. I feel your pain.

 

[volxstu]

Oh and if anybody thinks i was being serious i wouldnt waste my record on this low life. I only have like one year and it will be wiped clean he has to live with being who he is his whole life. I would rather have my depression TBH.

 

[Vimto Rolf]

realisations that happened a few years ago tbh:

how little seems to bother me really i mean. like my dad ended up having to go to hospital on sunday tbh i didnt give a crap only reason i did was because of my mum tbh.

also how little i value my own life and those of others. more because of an attempt to understand the meaning of life. ie you eat you sleep, you work to pay to be able to do those and by a load of pointless crap, if your lucky you get a husband or wife, have kids, you die, kids live on in your name. what a pointless thing to do tbh.


theres others but no point going into them as no doubt somebody will try to find something wrong in what ive just said.

 

[punto_matt]

Your fricking hilarious Stu. How long before your depression makes you get one of these?

Not too long hopefully, forum will be a much better place then as they wont have to listen to the crap that you spout because you think you know everything.

 

[volxstu]

Your fricking hilarious Stu. How long before your depression makes you get one of these?

Not too long hopefully, forum will be a much better place then as they wont have to listen to the crap that you spout because you think you know everything.

OK Cool why dont you bring me one down here.

 

[punto_matt]

Give me your address and i will more than happily bring you one down.

 

[volxstu]

PM Sent

 

[punto_matt]

I havent got one?

 

[volxstu]

Im just trying to decide which crack heads address i will give you. You know they fill screw anybody up the ass for a couple of rocks. :devil:

 

[punto_matt]

Why are you scared if i gave it to you then you might actually use it?

 

[Dominion]

My DHR: Just spent 5 minutes reading posts by 2 blokes that clearly don't like each other. 5 minutes I'll never get back:bang:

Which I can add to the 30 minutes wasted in the fookin job centre earlier:bang:

WTF is going on Matt/Stu? Thought we were a friendly forum....(usually)

 

[volxstu]

WTF is going on Matt/Stu? Thought we were a friendly forum....(usually)

Ahh im only playing with him, it gave us in the office a laugh anyway. He knows deep down he want my ass.

 

[T14086]

you eat you sleep, you work to pay to be able to do those and by a load of pointless crap, if your lucky you get a husband or wife, have kids, you die, kids live on in your name. what a pointless thing to do tbh.

natural instinct of survival...I look at it another way, out of all those sammy sperms & edna eggs I got lucky...millions to one! A chance of life that so many never had.